Notes from Tallahassee, Florida, on a Late April Day in 2020

Our daughter Margo, who lives in Tallahassee, FL, is today’s guest blogger, and shares her observations, and some photos, during COVID-19 with us.

Florida has been quite slow in its reaction to the Coronavirus – its effects likewise. Publix is a southern grocery store, where we often shop. It was one of the first grocery stores, before corporations like Walmart and Target, to enforce stricter guidelines on how one can shop.

Publix, along with Walmart, have now instructed customers that they can only go down aisles one way. A lot of Floridians see the signs, don’t care, and proceed walking down the aisle incorrectly. My guess as to why they have these guidelines is to reduce overcrowding and maintain the 6 feet distance rule.

The photo below was also taken at Publix. I walked by this woman who wore a unicorn costume for a hazmat suit. She also wore a face mask and was completely serious about it.

hazmat suit shopping

Last week, my partner and I went fishing at St. Marks in Florida, a popular tourist area. While trying to navigate our way through the area, we found camp grounds where people were grilling and hanging out together.

All in all, there  are some restrictions and limitations set by the governor of Florida. However, today on 30 April, some of these limitations have been lifted. So, now we can have people go to restaurants at 25% capacity, and you can sit outside of restaurants and eat.

Florida has not yet flattened the curve, and we might have to expect a second wave.

A Good Reason to Travel

Live, travel, adventure, bless, and don’t be sorry.

– Jack Kerouac

Bäume im Winter

Urselbach in Oberursel

Of Cats and Men on Malta

Near our hotel, at the end of the road, we noticed this strange little area of plush animals, dolls, bears, and cat trees and beds. It also had a sign and box asking for donations for this Cat Village.Cat Village, St. Julian's

When you looked closer, you could see various real cats nestled among the plus animals.  This one I found to be a very interesting composition.

The cats have a good life here, at least in this corner of Malta. Here in St. Julian’s, you see cats everywhere and they look well fed. Occasionally you see a restaurant owner feeding them with  fish. At least five cats were always present at breakfast on the terrace. Nobody minded them and they seem quite happy.

Cat-friendly Malta

From cats to men. The local men we saw were mostly fishermen, rugged looking and hard working.

fishing boats Spinola Bay, Malta

A tourist chatting up a fisherman.

Fisher at talk

This one was too tired for a conversation.

Man on bench

The cats around our hotel and nearby restaurants looked much better fed and groomed than those guys working the seas.

A Good Reason to Travel

Travel brings power and love back to your life.

—  Rumi —

Dokay Bay, Kitakyushu-shi, Japan

Dokay Bay, Kitakyushu-shi, Japan

Living with Less Adds More to Life

Whenever I read another  article about decluttering one’s life, I promise myself to clear out more personal things to lighten my load.

On a daily basis, I have set up a little program called One Horrific Item Out (OHIO). In general, the item does not have to be horrific at all. I just have to be horrified enough to have kept it so long.

This could be a chipped vase going in the trash, a small stack of books readied for donation, or some dishes/cutlery for the drop-off table at my husband’s workplace (new teachers do appreciate this a lot).

The first part is the hardest – not always the part of letting go, but making the decision what to do with it. I tend to do more recycling and donating before putting anything in the trash bin.

On any given morning, when I push a salad bowl into my husband’s hands, he might give me a confused look. OHIO, I reply, and this answers his question. Mind you, there have been times I found OHIO stuff in his car trunk which had not made it to the drop-off table yet. I guess he did not want to be seen walking around with a salad bowl under his arm.

But at least the item was gone. Out of sight, out of mind.

Things I have bought are easy to let go. Even if I have not used the item much, I have no misgivings. Whatever money I had spent on it, I write it off as a long-term rental fee. This goes for new books (some are keepers, I do make exceptions), but most books can be passed on to friends or charities.

As of now I find it close to impossible for little possessions, left behind by my parents such as their wedding ring, my mom’s kitchen apron, etc., to let go.

After having moved overseas six times and started furnishing a new home from nil each time, I know how easy it can be. We bought stuff from flea markets, overseas family members were happy to get rid off their old couch, departing teachers were selling their used stuff and so much more. It was always easy getting stuff, but getting rid off it again is another story.

We have been in our current home for close to 18 years. A lot of stuff accumulates over such time. Lately, I have come to realize the following: What took us close to 20 years to pile up, will take us close to 25 years to tear down. We as a family have multiplied too. Now there are four of us.

Over the years, insurance salesmen have tried to sell me theft insurance in vain. Note to thief: Please start with the basement. Make sure to take my husband’s flippers first, which he has not used since our trip to Okinawa in 1994.

They tried to sell me thunderstorm insurance, because lightning could ruin our lovely TV, made in 1990. It’s a monster of a TV and my kids’ prayers for lightning to strike or for the TV to go kaput (because of the promise for an LED TV) have not been answered.

They tried to sell me household insurance in case the place gets robbed, burned down, etc. I don’t need these material things, I just need to know my family is well. There is no angst in me for losing stuff, I lost more and more of this German trait with every move I made.

Have you ever considered how much we are dragging home on a weekly basis? For every item, e.g. clothing, another item should go out at the same time. Easier said than done, I know. Just remember OHIO next time.

And I’m so glad we don’t have a garage either.



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